Down and Out in Denver

Free Days at “The Nature of Things”

Posted in art, denver by Alastair on July 29, 2010

 

Some good news for you cash strapped art lovers. From now through Saturday, admission to the Biennial of the Americas’ The Nature of Things exhibit, located in the historic McNichols building in Civic Center Park, is FREE! Don’t miss your chance to experience this one-of-a-kind exhibit.

Click here for complete info.

Wednesday Links

Posted in Uncategorized by Alastair on July 28, 2010

  • Are multi-level shorts for men really the new summer trend? Via Le Fag.
  • Spanish architect Santiago Calatrava is in town this week to unveil plans for the Denver International Airport South Terminal Redevelopment. Tonight, the Denver Office of Cultural Affairs will host a special public presentation with the architect at the Denver Art Museum from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m.
  • I’ve amassed quite a collection of works on paper. Drawings, posters, and prints. The thought of framing and then hanging these works is a little daunting. KID Collective offers up a few suggestions of how to incorporate artwork behind your sofa. I particularly love the vintage furniture thrift store combo.
  • As we mentioned last week, Mondo Guerra will be bringing a little Denver to “Project Runway” this season. You can personally cheer him on each and every Thursday night during the season as The Fabric Lab and Guerra host Project Runway Nights at Beauty Bar Denver.
  • 31 is apparently the new 21, according to a study on the age at which women reach their peak of confidence. Congratulations, Kate Hudson — it’s all downhill from here.

Palm Springs Weekend

Posted in travel by Alastair on July 26, 2010

I could not be more pleased to be headed to Palm Springs this week, that desert oasis where the 1950s never went out of style. Yes, it’s going to be hot, but having a pool nearby and sweet tea vodka in my hand is all I’ll need to keep cool. Throw in a few nights at the Ace Hotel & Swim Club, about a dozen of my best gal pals, and one 40th birthday celebration (not mine) and some serious good times are guaranteed. Expect a full report upon my return and, in the meantime, some vintage Palm Springs postcards for your pleasure.

Wednesday Links

Posted in Uncategorized by Alastair on July 21, 2010

Denver's Security Life / ING Building

  • Neil Patrick Harris tweets his double rainbow sighting. Apparently, I’m not the only one who gets excited over a rainbow, or two. I caught one last night, above.
  • Courtney Love has started writing a blog about what she wears.
  • ‘Project Runway’ Season 8 begins airing on Lifetime on July 29. Seventeen contestants will compete this season, including Mondo Guerra from Denver.
  • Michael Paglia’s review of three important Biennial art exhibits.
  • The fall election is heating up in Oklahoma. Brittany Novotny, a Democrat and the states’s first known transgender candidate, is running for a seat in the State House against Sally Kern, the Republican incumbent who gained national attention in 2008 for saying that “the homosexual agenda is just destroying this nation.”
  • Men are being introduced to the concept of mattification. I’ve been using DDF Daily Matte™ with SPF 15 for years. Just saying.

Blake’s Book Nook, Vol. I

Posted in books, gays by Blake on July 21, 2010

So one of my perpetual complaints about Denver is that people don’t really seem to read.  Books. Fiction, non-fiction, whatever you like; just something other than magazines and newspapers and the interwebs.  I like to read.  A lot.  I’ve also always had a fantasy, if I weren’t doing what I do now, of opening up a little bookstore where I would stock the shelves with all the things that I like to read and develop a community of like-minded readers here in D-Town.  Maybe I’d even call it Blake’s Book Nook. In that spirit, I am inaugurating a new feature here at DOD.  Every once in a while I will post about a book that I think people might enjoy reading, just as I did in the very first weeks of DOD.

We begin this literary venture with the latest from Stephen McCauley, Insignificant Others. McCauley is the author of five previous novels, most famous among them The Object of My Affection, which was made into a movie starring Jennifer Aniston and the ever-dreamy Paul Rudd.  I first read McCauley when I was an undergrad and just coming to terms with the gay thing.  He writes novels that are quite funny but also often poignant. Combining these two elements isn’t always easy, but at his best McCauley makes it look so.  In my estimation his most recent two have not been as good as his early work, but he returns in fine form with Insignificant Others. It is the story of HR Director Richard Rossi, who is having a long-term affair with a straight married man but is also partnered with Conrad (who Richard has discovered is also having an affair of his own). Richard suffers few moral qualms about all this; he just doesn’t want to upset the precarious balance that has been established. The thing to know about McCauley is that you can’t take it all too seriously; his characters often do not.  The book is slightly implausible, but often ridiculously funny for being so. In addition McCauley is just so astute in his observations about people and life in general that the implausibility ceases to be a problem.  It’s also pretty clear that McCauley knows he’s writing some pretty absurd characters.  In sum, it is just hard to believe that people making such foolish choices could simultaneously also be this lucid or self-aware.  But it’s great fun for the reader that they are! I leave you with some gems from Insignificant Others.

This is a musing by Richard after being overheard by a small child:

From what I can tell, the chief distinguishing factor between children and adults is that children hear everything while appearing not to and adults hear nothing while pretending to listen.

This is the reaction of a female friend after Richard has lied to cover up his male friend’s own lie:

She frowned at me.  ”I won’t hold it against you for trying to back up his lie, Richard.  It seems to be the main purpose of male friendships.”

“Versus women’s friendships,” Conrad said amiably.  ”Which are all about discussing the lies the men in their lives tell them.”

About a personal trainer who has taken to spray tanning:

As people demand less and less be done to their food chemically, they seem to be insisting that more chemicals be applied directly onto or into their bodies; painted tans, injected lips, pharmaceutically elongated eyelashes.

And finally, in discussing golf:

It was all about letting loose your aggressions in a calculated way and then watching the effects on a helpless little ball, which perhaps explains the popularity of the sport among Republicans.

Add to all these witty observations a plot, and characters about whose fate you care, and it’s clear that Stephen McCauley is back in his element.  All the better for us!

Amore Gelato

Posted in food by Alastair on July 20, 2010

A coworker and I were on a recent hunt for ice-cold treats. Anything to ease the scorch of the day. After mentioning the yet to open Pinkberry, she suggested we stop by Amore Gelato at 16th and Welton. Amore Gelato is a Denver-based, locally owned and operated Italian-style frozen desserts shop. Though many of their ingredients (including dairy, such as milk, cream and yogurt) are purchased locally, they import a great deal of their base ingredients straight from Italy for a truly authentic gelato–the country’s regional variant of ice cream.

On the left: Tiramisu and Coconut. On the right: Grapefruit and Red Orange

I love gelato… Made with some of the same ingredients as most other frozen dairy desserts (milk, cream, various sugars, flavoring including fruit purees), gelato differs from ice cream in that it has a lower butterfat content and generally has slightly lower sugar content. It’s a denser product with more flavor than your typical American ice cream. High-quality gelato holds its peak flavor and texture (from delicate ice crystals) for only several days and that’s why Amore Gelato makes the small batches in the kitchen upstairs.

I tried a combination of tiramisu and coconut. Both were delicious! My coworker had the grapefruit and red orange (actually blood orange). The grapefruit was very refreshing. Just the thing for a hot summer afternoon. If you’re downtown and looking for gelato, Amore gelato is probably you’re only option. It’s a great option to have and I know I’ll be spending more time here as summer passes.

 

“Makes Me Want A Hot Dog Real Bad.”

Posted in denver, food by Alastair on July 16, 2010

This heat, and the fact that I was bedridden for the Fourth of July, means only one thing. I’m craving a hot dog real bad. And, I’m thinking a Chicago dog is the way to go. It only happens two or maybe three times a year. So, you may catch Alastair at Steve’s Snappin’ Dogs on Colfax this weekend.

Have a favorite place to grab a dog? Let me know!

Bare Ankles Are In

Posted in fashion by Alastair on July 15, 2010

This morning I read a fun article in the New York Times by Eric Wilson titled, “The Art of the Pants Roll.” I found the whole thing enjoyable. The writing was amusing… I actually laughed out loud at the coffee shop. Wilson’s observations, such as “Legions of young men… are rolling up their pants legs to such high-water lengths that one is tempted to inquire where exactly the auditions for the Huckleberry Finn revival are being held” or “By the way, there are several don’ts… No bootleg pants, which should be burned anyway” caught me off guard. In a good way. Where IS the flood?

To be honest, I like the trend… maybe not on me so much. Like they say, getting the roll right is harder than it looks. I have noticed on the few occasions I’ve bared my ankles… or socks, that the roll does help keep me cooler. During these hot days, every bit helps. After returning from NY, I forgot men were rolling up their pants, except on the rare occasion they showed up on a fashion blog. Truth is, I just don’t see it happen much here in Denver. Like so many other trends… good or bad. [Side note: I've been perusing needle+thread and le 21ème lately, two seattle street style/fashion blogs. Check them out.] Speaking of… where’s Denver’s needle+thread or le 21ème? If you have any insight, let us boys know.

I also found it interesting that the NYTs had taken so long to report on this. During some recent visits to New York (the last in May), I was struck by the large number of men that were rolling up their pants and jeans. At one point it felt just as Wilson describes it, “the rolled cuff epidemic of 2010.” It was a little overwhelming. I had an in-depth conversation about it with my brother. One explanation he shared revolved around a friend who explained that their choice was recession related. In other words, one could not be bothered by a visit to their tailor and actually pay the $10 to have their jeans properly hemmed. I could live with that…

Wednesday Links

Posted in Uncategorized by Alastair on July 14, 2010

The wives of the African leaders joined French first lady Carla Bruni-Sarkozy. The bouffant hairdo of Cameroonian first lady Chantal Biya added to the splendour of the occasion.

  • Vive La France! France marked Bastille day with a military parade down the Champs-Elysee in Paris to celebrate the 211th anniversary of the storming of the Bastille prison, amid criticism of the presence of some African leaders in Paris.
  • Check out Design*Sponge’s “sneak peek” of my friend Kate’s sunny Oakland, CA apartment where she and Anton have surrounded themselves with pieces they’ve made, collected and inherited.
  • According to Westword’s Worst-Case Scenario, King Tut could give a DAM.
  • The Foals announce a North American tour and stop by Denver’s Larimer Lounge on Tuesday October 12th. The Oxford group is playing in support of their recently released second album ‘Total Life Forever’. While this is great news (notice San Francisco and Seattle missing from the tour…) I will need to travel elsewhere this fall to catch twee-pop cult heroes Belle and Sebastian.
  • Otter, bear, seal… or just not sure what animal you are? This Friday the Barker Lounge, “Denver’s Friendliest Neighborhood Lounge” on Broadway hosts a Woodland Creature Party, featuring “honey wrestling” and a “pelt pageant.” Should be an interesting evening…
  • When will this heat end?

Denver’s Love of Plastic

Posted in bars, denver, food by Blake on July 8, 2010

You may be wondering what has become of your DOD boys.  Well, in between recovering from Gay Pride in SF, celebrating American Independence (Happy Belated 4th of July!), and Alastair coming down with a nasty case of strep throat, we have been all kinds of busy.  So while I do not have any restaurant reviews (Alastair was really not fit for public), I can share with you my musings on Denver’s love affair with the credit card.

When I first moved to Denver a few years ago I noticed that people here used credit and debit cards much more often than I was used to.  People paid for just about everything with them and some people I knew rarely seemed to visit an ATM, only occasionally getting cash back at the grocery store. It seems to me that there are pluses and minuses to this reliance upon plastic (leaving aside the issue of debt and credit, a whole other story).

On one hand I appreciate the willingness of Denver restaurants to split a check three or four ways.  Alastair and I were at a birthday dinner last year at a local DOD fave and the waiter split the check 16 ways without blinking; I kid you not. It makes life easier not having to calculate everything or carry around a ton of cash.

On the other hand, I find it seriously irritating when people never have cash.  Ever.  And when they insist on paying for very small purchases with a card.  Have you ever been in line at JR’s when someone paid for one cocktail with a credit card?  And there is a line?  And JRs still has a completely antiquated credit card machine?  ’Cause I have.  And it’s annoying.  A drink, especially at JRs, costs about 5 bucks (sometimes much less).  This is precisely the scenario in which those green pieces of paper come in very handy, not just for you but for everyone behind you in line as well.

There are still cities in this venerable country of ours where some restaurants and stores do not accept credit cards.  In Denver I feel certain that such an establishment would go out of business. But I kind of admire their unwillingness to bend on this issue. They prominently display “Cash Only” on the menus and on signs on the door to prepare you, and they are more than willing to direct you to the nearest ATM, but they will not be accepting your plastic.  Bully for them, I say.  Keep up the good fight!

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